Mission Statement

This blog is set up to support families that have had their lives torn apart by various Social Services departments. To connect people to others who understand what they are going through, to provide links to resources, and to shed light on the abuse that is rampant in our social services department.

Daddy and Dulce

Daddy and Dulce
A week before Dulce was stolen away.

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My wife and I are a father and mother(non-biological) who were accused of just about everything under the sun (never charged because it was untrue).The daughter of our heart was ripped out of her family. We are devastated and will never get over this. I have since found out I am not alone there are thousands of families that have been heartbroken over having their children literally kidnapped by the all powerful social services all over the world. I am hoping that by coming together we can help one another.
Showing posts with label abuse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label abuse. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

Arizona Parent Caims CPS Moved Child 17 Times

PHOENIX (KSAZ) - A harsh spotlight has been shining on Child Protective Services the last few weeks. Now a parent steps forward to talk about her experience with the agency -- sadly, it's not a good one.   She worries about the thousands of children trapped in the system, though there might be better options out there.
It was an emergency when 5-week-old Aurora came to David and April Snow in their Phoenix home nearly five years ago.


"The biological mother had some substance abuse issues and so we had our work cut out for us at the get go," said April.
CPS placed the baby with the Snows because Aurora is April's cousin.
From the time she was a baby to when she was taken four years later, Aurora was moved by CPS 17 times, according to April.
"She had 17 transitions in and out of our home, in and out of shelters, in and out of emergency placement, in and out of other foster homes," said April.
Aurora was placed with the Snows in February of 2009, but 13 months later, April says CPS deemed that the biological mother was able to care for her daughter again. The mother had since given birth to a baby boy and had moved to Tucson.
The Snows had to let Aurora go, but disagreed with CPS' decision.
"They returned Aurora to her biological mother, who now had a younger child and they were all homeless," said April, who adds that she could tell Aurora was losing her sparkle.
"My husband used to drive down every week to see them and would pick up Aurora and take her to eat, go to the store, buy food, clothes, whatever he could do because you hands are tied."
April says on one visit in July of 2010, they saw Aurora had cigarette burns on her.  They called CPS.
"They would reassure us everything was fine and no, the mother didn't burn the child on purpose.. the wind blew the cigarette, you know, things to us that weren't right."
The very next month, April says something finally happened in Tucson with Aurora's biological mother that could not be explained away or ignored.
"Her biological mother stabbed the boyfriend multiple times in the hotel room and when Tucson Police responded, they found both children in there.. blood everywhere and they removed the children."
Aurora went back to the Snows, but she was not the same child who had left them.
"Aurora who had left our home developmentally on task no longer spoke, she only grunted and screamed.. she had completely shut down," said April.
CPS would remove Aurora one more time from the Snows in September of 2011 when the couple said they couldn't take both Aurora and her baby brother -- just her.
Then a fourth CPS worker got the case, who April says was their guardian angel.
"She wasn't burned out, she was one of the good ones that still had a fight in her."
April says the CPS worker listened to their whole story, connected the dots, severed parental rights of the mother to Aurora and her baby brother.
The brother went to another family member and in March of 2012, the Snows officially adopted Aurora.
A happy ending on the surface, but the Snows will tell you the pictures of their adorable little girl with a pink feather boa doesn't reveal the whole truth.
"She wakes up every night crying.  Two nights ago, we found her in a closet hiding and these are things that are long lasting.  She used to scream every time the doorbell would ring and hide because she would be afraid," said April.
Aurora is in counseling, but the Snows know the damage runs deep.
They worry about the thousands of children in Arizona that are either trapped in a nightmare of abuse or bouncing around the system within a community that can't find a way to save them.
We asked CPS about the Snow's case.  The couple feels the agency can't or won't look at the big picture and do what's best for children in crisis.
CPS responded that it cannot comment on cases like this one.

Sunday, October 9, 2011

I Call Stealing A Baby Kidnapping DCF Calls It A Good Days Work

The Collusion Between Jackson County Ga DCF and Stephens County GA DCF a Follow up Blog from Yesterday

 

Newborn Nathan and Payton with their Mom and Dad
Yesterday I wrote a blog about how a week old baby was literally torn from his mother’s breast as she was feeding him. This baby’s name is Nathan and it was the first time his older sister had met him.
The background is Jackson County DCF snatch Payton a while back. They snatched her because her mother was accused of deprivation- this is their standard method of operation. This way they don’t have to charge the parent criminally. If they had there would have been no case.
Fast forward to Monday May2,2011. Leigh had taken the new baby Nathan to visit his sister at the Tree House in Jackson County. Leigh currently lives in Stephens County.
While she was gone a Stephens County Deputy and a caseworker showed up at the house demanding to know where Leigh and Nathan were. Her mother in law told them she was visiting Payton. They didn’t want to see the baby’s room but they did take picture's of the mother in law’s van and the house.
From there the insanity proceeded to the Tree House. That is where a Jackson county deputy and one Maria Ryder a caseworker from Jackson County stripped baby Nathan from his mother’s breast while he was feeding and put him in a car seat in the transporter’s van and let him continue to cry for thirty minutes because he was hungry. This child had health issues when he was born and was supposed to receive breast milk as opposed to formula.
Now there is more abuse on Jackson County and Stephen County’s part. They have taken a newborn put him in a van hungry- let him cry without feeding him, he has health issues and to add more to that other children in the facility saw this abuse taking place. His sister saw this abuse taking place. They were all traumatized.
Maria Ryder is the caseworker in Jackson County who stole Payten from her mother when sought medicla attention for her daughter. She fell off the radar after Leigh moved to Stephens County but yet she was the one who showed up to steal Nathan. The Supervisor of Jackson County is A Heather Murray.
Now the back story on Nathan – Doug Haines who is the attorney for Jackson County DCF told Leigh before Nathan was born that if there was any way he could get the new baby he would. Between him, Maria Ryder and Heather Murray they managed it.
This is how they did it. They found out when the baby was born when Leigh was going to visit Payton then then contacted Garth Rivers with Stephens County DCF and feed him lies. He told Leigh that he just couldn’t let Nathan stay with his mom.
Right- like he went to a nice foster home. IF you notice the band aid under Payton’s eye. There is a story that will make you sick. It appears that the foster care provider was supposed to be on vacation in Ga with Payton- but instead they were at a soccer game for their 11 year old daughter. Payton Fell from the bleacher’s and was bitten by a dog. She is now going to require plastic surgery the wound is so bad. But yet they put this new baby in this same home. They didn’t even tell Leigh what happened – She found out when they brought Payton to the Tree House to visit her mom. The transporter told her. The foster care provider was nowhere to be found.
Now we do know that Jackson County is under investigation and from all the sources I have talked to the investigation is very ugly. We know there is corruption, greed and abuse in that county by DCF. We know they sell children for profit. We have known this for a long time. It is time to return these children back to their family. They have no case, if they really had a deprivation case they would have charged Leigh and arrested her. In fact she told Garth Rivers to do just that he refused. That is proof positive that there is no case. If they had a case and charged Leigh then it would go to criminal court and all the evidence would be public knowledge. Time to stop the corruption Time get these kids home where they belong.

http://protectingourchildrenfrombeingsold.wordpress.com/2011/05/04/the-collusion-between-jackson-county-ga-dcf-and-stephens-county-ga-dcf-a-follow-up-blog-from-yesterday/

Saturday, September 24, 2011

Governor Christie Of New Jersey Stop the abuse of Abdulrahman In Foster Care

PLEASE HELP BRING ABDU HOME
This is a pdf file and you may need adobe reader to view it. You can download adobe by clicking here.
PLEASE HELP BRING ABDULRAHMAN HOME 
Only a few pictures are included that show the abuse AbdulRahman received while in foster "care". Meanwhile you can check out our facebook page at
This page was created to help FREE AbdulRahman from his misery.
If you would like to help us SAVE him from more harm & torture. 
When your scroll through these images I want you to imagine this as your own child, your niece of nephew or even yourself as a child. Would you tolerate this? Is this acceptable in a country that claims to be the leader of democracy and human rights? How can a Judge claim these are normal bruises?


How can the judge dismiss the social workers testimony that this child shakes and shivers and hides under the table when he sees the Foster "mother" approach? How can you stand by letting this happen in our great ad just country. We must stand up for AbdulRahman and all those innocent children who the NJ DYFS has turned into hell on earth and allowed them to be molested, physically and emotionally abused?? We need the governor of NJ to look into this immediately, we need the US President and the First lady to look into this immediately. 

There is still time to fix this mistake DYFS did, and this child can still be helped! Lets at least give him 10% of the attention the puppy in Iraq got and get something done about this.

Please, if you know of anyone in the NJ area that can help this child be reunited with his loving and caring child, please email us at helpmychildnow@gmail.com

Abdul is still in custody of the Abusive foster "family" along with another child. We Need to get them out of there before they are killed and it's too late to save them.

Let's not wait for solutions after body bags!
Let's Help these Children Out Of that abusive home NOW!

They are relying on us all, as parents, as communities, as humans, as brothers and sisters, as AMERICANS!

Contact NJ Governor Through his website & Call and voice your concern.

Go to drop down menu and select "Children & Families"
Then hit continue, that will take you to step 2 where you select the sub-topic "Abuse" and fill out your information include under the relation box "Concerned citizen" Then express your feelings in the "Message" Box and click on "send your message".

Please do not disappoint this poor child in need of your help.

You can call them at (609)777-2500

Or send them a letter at the address below & mention the 
childs name
AbdulRahman Khalil.
DOB 04/19/2004
Office of the Governor
PO Box 001
Trenton, NJ 08625

To listen to audio files click on the underlined text for each file.






Bruises on his forehead and cheeks. :(



Bruises all over his little body by the incompetent Foster "mother"



The marks of abuse are now permanent on AbdulRahmans Face! We can't wait until he gets killed or kills himself if he ever gets to grow up! Every person responsible for such trauma should be held accountable starting from the Judge that dismissed these abuses as "normal bruises children have"!




(Above) AbdulRahmans dad on his last visitation about 2 years ago, writing "I LUV U" on the glass of the car before his son was taken away from him not be seen again. NJ DYFS did this and we want every person held accountable for the trauma the child has been put through!


(Below)These are not pictures of Iraqi prisoners overseas. These are marks of abuse in NJ perpetrated against and innocent child by who is supposed to care for the child.


The picture above was the last time the father had contact with his child. They did not know this was their final Good Bye. Let us all reunite them! Please help the father "who was never abusive" reunite with his child. Let us stop the heartache, the misery, the trauma both the child and father go through on a daily basis.



How can someone, anyone, have the heart to inflict such injuries on such a beautiful child?
How can any Judge or Authority allow this to happen and dismiss a childs cry for help as "normal"
Please help!

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Kidnapped By DCF IN Springfield, Massachusetts

  • To Whom It May Concern: My Grand Daughter, Crystal, was Legally Kidnapped by DCF in Springfield, Massachusetts on July 23rd 2009, which was on a Thursday. The DCF worker LIED! These people have DESTROYED our Family. They claim there was abuse and neglect, however, the ONLY ABUSE AND NEGLECT came from the workers and the foster home my Grand Daughter was in. On September 3rd of 2009, I went to my scheduled visit with my Grand Daughter, which was on a Thursday. Crystal had BRUISES over and under BOTH eyes and BRUISES on BOTH cheeks, on Crystal's right cheek was a right-handed thumb imprint. I almost dropped to my knees and cried when I SAW the foster mother carry Crystal in. The foster mother said, "Crystal walked into her sofa." I didn't even ask. I'm NOT ALLOWED to. I took pictures and video of Crystal and I did ask Crystal if, "she had anymore boo boos?" Crystal showed me her legs which had a couple of small bruises and bug bites. I called the area director and wrote to the Governor, Patrick, and they wrote back saying, "Although, they share my concerns, they will not intervened." My visits were taken away from me, Because I made the call and wrote the letter. The worker was going to tell me in front of Crystal, that this was my last visit. I had to sit with Crystal with bruises on her face and SMILE for an hour. EVERY TIME I had to leave after our time, I had to hear my baby SCREAM AND CRY for her ME~MA. That is what Crystal calls me, "ME~MA." We were the ONLY family Crystal KNEW when they KIDNAPPED her on FALSE PRETENSES. There was NO reason why Crystal could NOT stay in her own home! She (DCF WORKER) even told me to "get a 209a" against my daughter, Crystal's mother and Crystal will be "back here on Monday." Guess what? It NEVER happened! That worker LIED, LIED, AND LIED SOME MORE, while she was on the witness stand at a hearing for me, to get Crystal home and OUT of the system! It's been OVER 2 years since Crystal (Bear is her nickname) WAS KIDNAPPED! My daughter has gone through over 3 service plans. I mean they even told her to get a learner's permit. REALLY!? Like there are NO buses or I can't give her a ride? A learner's permit. OH and the reason we're on, is because, I wouldn't allow my children to hang around this pill popping, drug addict, drunk. Who ALWAYS had guys, of ALL sorts, hanging around her and girls were ALWAYS threatening her, BECAUSE she is a TROUBLE MAKER, and she had her children taken away. DCF KNEW WHO was calling and also knew the allegations were NOT TRUE! This person had EVERYBODY call in FALSE ALLEGATIONS. One time the DCF worker was sitting in my home when she called and started harassing me and threatened to call DCF AGAIN! and she DID! I have a letter from DCF stating she has harassed my family and threatened us. The problem is with DCF and how they ABUSE their POWER! DCF told me to back off for 6 months so the worker could pull on my daughter's strings, like she was a puppet. I am Crystal's ME~MA, why would I BACK OFF? I and my daughter have ALTO MORE. I am asking you to, "CHECK OUT what we are saying, PLEASE!" My Grand Daughter's life DEPENDS ON IT! OH, I also have another Grand Daughter, who lives here in the SAME home, where 1 DCF worker said was unfit BUT another DCF worker finds NOTHING WRONG with my home! PLEASE, I'm willing to tell the truth about what we are going through, all we are asking is for you to PLEASE check it out! There are 1000s like us. They (DCF) take the children that DON'T need to be and place them in ABUSIVE homes and at times are MURDERED! The ones who NEED to be saved ARE left to be ABUSED and at times MURDERED! Thank You for your time. I assure you, I did NOT WASTE IT! Sincerely yours,
  • Lynn Marie Gilligan; Crystal,s ME~MA

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Stop Social Services And Stand Up To Make A Difference

I would like everyone to think about something. We need to support each other. It is time to take action, even if you don't think petitions work what does it hurt to sign a petition to help support others? People will sign to save  a tree 100,000 signatures is no problem. For our children we can not even get a thousand, what's wrong with this picture? It does not matter what state or country you live in, it does not matter if you are a parent, it does not matter if you have lost a child to corruption, what matters is seeing the corruption and making the decision to turn a blind eye and allow the evil to thrive or to take a stand and say enough is enough and our children are not objects to be abused, stolen, or sold.  Sign today and pass it on, tell your friend and family to sign it cost nothing but a few minuets of time, is not one child even worth that, much less thousands of children all over the world. What happens when these children grow and see that we can not even get a thousand signatures to save them, out of millions of people, not even a thousand signature. But don't dis pair we saved insects and flowers.  Can you image the petition gets 400 or 500 signatures in one day how powerful,  show our children that we fought the best way we could, without ceasing, never forgetting.... just my thoughts. 
Randy