Mission Statement

This blog is set up to support families that have had their lives torn apart by various Social Services departments. To connect people to others who understand what they are going through, to provide links to resources, and to shed light on the abuse that is rampant in our social services department.

Daddy and Dulce

Daddy and Dulce
A week before Dulce was stolen away.

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My wife and I are a father and mother(non-biological) who were accused of just about everything under the sun (never charged because it was untrue).The daughter of our heart was ripped out of her family. We are devastated and will never get over this. I have since found out I am not alone there are thousands of families that have been heartbroken over having their children literally kidnapped by the all powerful social services all over the world. I am hoping that by coming together we can help one another.
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Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Court Rules Social Workers Must Follow Law


Lawsuit defendant Sheriff Joe
 A federal court has ruled that social workers have to respect the U.S. Constitution regarding privacy and parental rights, and if they don't they may be held liable.
The ruling comes in an Arizona case in which social workers, accompanied by Maricopa County deputy sheriffs, made unsupported threats to place a family's children in custody and arrest the parents if they were not allowed to make what ended up being an allegedly illegal search of the family's home.
U.S. District Judge Earl H. Carroll ordered that a lawsuit by the family against the social workers and sheriff will be allowed to continue, because the social workers' concerns were based on "an anonymous tip that the … Loudermilk children were being neglected and that plaintiffs' home was uninhabitable."
However, the judge said that under federal law, an anonymous tip,   "without more, does not constitute probable cause."

The case is being publicized by the Home School Legal Defense Association because of the involvement of the organization's members, the family of John and Tiffany Loudermilk.
"Social workers and sheriff's deputies had come to the home … demanding entry based on a six-week-old anonymous tip that the newly constructed home was unsafe for children," the organization said.
"The Loudermilks declined consent, as was their right under the Fourth Amendment. After an escalating confrontation at the front door that lasted 40 minutes, the social workers, backed by no fewer than four deputies, threatened to take the Loudermilks' children into custody and place them in foster care if the Loudermilks continued to deny them entry… An assistant attorney general repeated this threat to HSLDA attorney Thomas Schmidt, who was assisting the Loudermilks during the confrontation," the HSLDA report said.
Under duress, the family allowed the social workers and deputies inside, who found nothing wrong, the report said.
 
But as a result of the search, the family sued the social workers and others citing the violation of their Fourth Amendment rights in the search, and violations of their 14th Amendment rights to privacy and family integrity because of the threats.
The judge, acting on motions submitted by the defendants to escape liability, agreed with the family.
"Defendants persisted in their threats to remove the children if Plaintiff Parents did not consent to the search, stating that [they] could arrest or handcuff the Parents in front of the children," the judge said.
"Based on the allegations set forth in the Amended Complaint, viewed in Plaintiff's favor, no reasonable official would have believed that his or her conduct was authorized by state or constitutional law."
Even the assistant attorney general was cited for exerting "coercive pressure" through threats.
"The ruling in this case makes it clear that threatening to remove children to gain a parent's cooperation is unconstitutional," said James Mason, senior counsel for the HSLDA. "We hope that this ruling will change this common tactic used by investigative caseworkers all over the country."
"There you have it, [social agencies and workers] cannot threaten parents with court orders or the removal of children because parents assert their Fourth and 14th Amendment rights and refuse to cooperate," added Thomas Dutkiewicz, of the Connecticut DCF Watch organization.
"Parents do not have to cooperate with DCF whatsoever and DCF employees have to go away when parents deny them access to their home and children," he said. "DCF workers here in Connecticut are trained and instructed in this unconstitutional practice in order to conduct an unreasonable search and seizure of the home and child. They are to lie and threaten any way they can. All parents who were threatened should file a federal lawsuit against DCF, their workers, their supervisors and the police."
Now proceeding will be the lawsuit against Maricopa County Sheriff Joe Arpaio, deputies Joshua Ray, Joseph Sousa, Richard Gagnon and Michael Danner, social workers Rhonda Cash and Jenna Cramer, and Assistant Attorney General Julie Rhodes.
 
The judge noted that the social workers misrepresented that they had a court order for an inspection of the home, but refused to provide it. He also noted the deputies were uncooperative, refusing to provide the family their cell telephone number so the HSLDA attorney could talk to them.
The claim against Rhodes stemmed from her advice to the family that the social workers were not bound by the Fourth Amendment in their intent to search the home.
The judge said verbal threats generally are not actionable in a federal civil rights proceeding, but in this case, "courts have held that a threat constitutes an actionable constitutional violation in certain circumstances, including 'when the threat is so brutal or wantonly cruel as to shock the conscience…'"

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Saturday, September 24, 2011

Governor Christie Of New Jersey Stop the abuse of Abdulrahman In Foster Care

PLEASE HELP BRING ABDU HOME
This is a pdf file and you may need adobe reader to view it. You can download adobe by clicking here.
PLEASE HELP BRING ABDULRAHMAN HOME 
Only a few pictures are included that show the abuse AbdulRahman received while in foster "care". Meanwhile you can check out our facebook page at
This page was created to help FREE AbdulRahman from his misery.
If you would like to help us SAVE him from more harm & torture. 
When your scroll through these images I want you to imagine this as your own child, your niece of nephew or even yourself as a child. Would you tolerate this? Is this acceptable in a country that claims to be the leader of democracy and human rights? How can a Judge claim these are normal bruises?


How can the judge dismiss the social workers testimony that this child shakes and shivers and hides under the table when he sees the Foster "mother" approach? How can you stand by letting this happen in our great ad just country. We must stand up for AbdulRahman and all those innocent children who the NJ DYFS has turned into hell on earth and allowed them to be molested, physically and emotionally abused?? We need the governor of NJ to look into this immediately, we need the US President and the First lady to look into this immediately. 

There is still time to fix this mistake DYFS did, and this child can still be helped! Lets at least give him 10% of the attention the puppy in Iraq got and get something done about this.

Please, if you know of anyone in the NJ area that can help this child be reunited with his loving and caring child, please email us at helpmychildnow@gmail.com

Abdul is still in custody of the Abusive foster "family" along with another child. We Need to get them out of there before they are killed and it's too late to save them.

Let's not wait for solutions after body bags!
Let's Help these Children Out Of that abusive home NOW!

They are relying on us all, as parents, as communities, as humans, as brothers and sisters, as AMERICANS!

Contact NJ Governor Through his website & Call and voice your concern.

Go to drop down menu and select "Children & Families"
Then hit continue, that will take you to step 2 where you select the sub-topic "Abuse" and fill out your information include under the relation box "Concerned citizen" Then express your feelings in the "Message" Box and click on "send your message".

Please do not disappoint this poor child in need of your help.

You can call them at (609)777-2500

Or send them a letter at the address below & mention the 
childs name
AbdulRahman Khalil.
DOB 04/19/2004
Office of the Governor
PO Box 001
Trenton, NJ 08625

To listen to audio files click on the underlined text for each file.






Bruises on his forehead and cheeks. :(



Bruises all over his little body by the incompetent Foster "mother"



The marks of abuse are now permanent on AbdulRahmans Face! We can't wait until he gets killed or kills himself if he ever gets to grow up! Every person responsible for such trauma should be held accountable starting from the Judge that dismissed these abuses as "normal bruises children have"!




(Above) AbdulRahmans dad on his last visitation about 2 years ago, writing "I LUV U" on the glass of the car before his son was taken away from him not be seen again. NJ DYFS did this and we want every person held accountable for the trauma the child has been put through!


(Below)These are not pictures of Iraqi prisoners overseas. These are marks of abuse in NJ perpetrated against and innocent child by who is supposed to care for the child.


The picture above was the last time the father had contact with his child. They did not know this was their final Good Bye. Let us all reunite them! Please help the father "who was never abusive" reunite with his child. Let us stop the heartache, the misery, the trauma both the child and father go through on a daily basis.



How can someone, anyone, have the heart to inflict such injuries on such a beautiful child?
How can any Judge or Authority allow this to happen and dismiss a childs cry for help as "normal"
Please help!

Monday, September 19, 2011

The kidnapping of my son(Ordered by the Los Angeles Co. DCFS office's Marijuana Supplier)

by Robert James Patterson on Sunday, August 15, 2010 at 9:34pm



Affidavit of facts
On December 24th of 2008, I received a call from this lady and this made me very uneasy, as it said LA County DCFS right on the caller ID and she also introduced herself as "Denise Sherman from Children's Protective Services". They then talked on the phone in Yiddish or Hebrew, both which I am not familiar with. Once they hung up, I immediately begin to question this friend whom explains to me that this is the woman who helps him bring his children from Chili over here every year. He tells me not to worry and that I would be meeting her shortly as she called to "score some weed". We got into the red truck that Mr. Carvajal's mother was renting for him as he could not rent one due to the fact that he has no drivers license due to several DUIs on his driving record. We went to Reseda Discount Caregivers where Mr. Carvajal went in to make a purchase with the money that Ms. Sherman had given to him in the cab of the truck. He came back out and gave her an eighth of marijuana he had purchased for her. We rushed off as she was late for the cruise she was taking that was leaving that day. They dropped us off at the friends that we were to spend Christmas Eve with and we said goodbye.
On January 16th of 2009 Ruben Carvajal had became a big abusive drunk and was causing undo hardship upon my family, so I kicked him out. Well, he left quick, but then took his time leaving collecting his belongings.
Between January 18th and February 16th of 2009Mr. Carvajal would come and remove a couple of items at a time. He then arrived one day and went through the closet and started to demand to know what we had done with "it". They it was an envelope that he claimed to have hidden, and not taken on his last to visits to collect his belongs, that supposedly contained 1500 dollars! He went on to ad that we were no responsible for it and that if we did not come up with his money, then "I will take what is yours". He then started to call and ask if we had come up with his money and every time would threaten to "call Children's Protective Services" on us. He sent one of his henchmen one time as well whom terrorized my wife as I was not at home and she refused to open the door without my presence in the house.
On February 19th of 2009 Ms. Denise Sherman was at the call box of my apartment complex. Having forgotten all about this woman, I rushed to let her in. We spent the whole day talking to her about Mr. Ruben D. Carvajal, showing her all of the personal information that he had left behind. My wife DID recognize her, although she was not from where, I on the other hand did not. She called her office and scheduled a TDM for the 25th so they could discuss services with us that would help us out with affordable housing and so forth.
On February 25th of 2009, At the Chatsworth DCFS office we went into a room and several other parties where present, the facilitator came in and was obviously agitated by the fact that we were having this meeting. Kept telling Ms. Sherman that she did not have enough to take us to court and asking her why she was doing this to this family, he even threw up his arms at one point declaring that he would not be part of this and stormed out of the room. Well, we agreed to random drug testing and counseling, all though the only thing found in our system was marijuana, which we had legal papers for. We fought off her and her supervisors character assassination attempts and they did not remove our beloved son .
On March 3rd of 2009, Tuesday Ms. Sherman made an appointment with me to come by in the morning and cancelled it in the afternoon. I said something to her that day on the phone while she was speaking, and she replied with a very stern and angry, "I was talking", which is what clicked in my memory. Later on I was riding the MTA and thinking what I could do to be a better father to my little 'Manny' and why Ruben was not up for false reports and it all came flooding back. I spoke while she was speaking in the cab of the truck on December 24th and received the same response. I remembered her now!
On March 4th of 2009, I called up my friend Mesha, who has had a few run ins with DCFS and told her of the situation. She advised me that all I had to do was call them and advise them that I knew the worker from outside of her relationship with DCFS. I did, but her supervisor was not available, so I spoke with the shift supervisor, Ms. Sonia Polain, and told her that I knew Ms. Denise Sherman from outside relations. She advised me that she was going to advise her that she was not to come out to my house as they were going to assign me to a new worker. She called me back and told me that she had been advised and that I was to call Mr. Tony Kade on the following day to be assigned a new worker.
On March 5th of 2009, Went to the courthouse to try and get a subpoena for the incoming calls to my phone on December 24th of 2008 so I had proof of Ms. Denise Sherman's under handed antics. Well, Ms. Lorain Ramirez called me on my cell and advised me that there was an emergency TDM and that I really need to be in attendance. I advised her that it would take me sometime to get out there as I had someone else's car that I had to return and catch a bus out there. While I was on the bus, I received a frantic call from my wife whom was very upset as the school administrator whom goes by the A.K.A. of Mr. T confronted her and stated that they just took our son away about fifteen minutes ago and demanded to know what it was all about (although the law clearly states that rather then taking time to inflict emotional harm, he should have been on the phone calling both of us while this was happening). I told my wife to get to the DCFS office as quick as possible and I would meet her there. I was now greatly distraught and unable to think clearly anymore and got off at the wrong bus stop. I contacted my wife on her cell and our neighbor was driving her from the DCFS office where they had requested another drug test. They picked me up and we went to the testing site, wrong move. They were closed by the time we were done and our child was in there custody. Ms. Sherman made a lot of false allegations against us and against our other family members so that the child was, instead of as the law now requires, placed into foster case as opposed to being placed with family.
On March 19th of 2009, I had another meeting with another Social Worker who is suppose to be of a different breed, although it has come to be known, she is as filthy as the rest, maybe even more so. Her name is Sheron Maitland and she, supposedly, is an officer of the courts. Well, I told her that I know Ms. Denise Sherman, that Ruben Carvajal had introduced her to me and that this was the vendetta that he had promised. She lied about our whole conversation, and outrageously at that. Stated that I had made claims of going to Las Vegas with Ms. Sherman, that I claimed she traveled to Chili to help Ruben bring his children to the states and then that me and my wife apologized for our statements concerning Ms. Denise Sherman and stated that we did not know her and that we made it all up. This woman is a master of all lies, and she has more power then a regular social worker as she is the one responsible for investigating if the social workers claims are valid! She tried to say that I said that the aunt was mentally unstable, but like the rest of the story that they told, it simply was not true. Even the statements I made regaurding the false statements were inaccurately record and just totally untrue.
On March 31st of 2009, Ms. Maitland visited Anatola Avenue Elementary School and had a conversation with our son. She wrote at "LAST MIUTE" INFORMATION report that is just really poor fiction! It is this paper that Ms. Maitland wrote that pushed me in the decision to appeal the case. That and the fact that it was this document in particular that made it so important that she make sure that my DUE PROCESS rights were totally violated so that these outrageous lies were entered into court as true and uncontested lest she perjure herself. She claims that Manny told her that I took Manny to outrageous parties where people were throwing champagne bottles against the wall until someone was injured. She then adds that she asked him how he knew that it was champagne and he said ( now get this, he is smart, but in first grade and spelling is not his top strength ) that he read it on the bottle and sounded it out. She then claims that he spelled out champagne to her and that he did it correctly. She then goes on to added that Manny, who has VERY rarely done anything to merit a swat on the behind with a hand, stated that when he is really bad, we beat him with a shoe or a belt. She also claimed that we smoke cigarettes and cigars in the house in his presence and suggests marijuana, which we never do any of the three in the house with him present. She also claimed that he stated that we fed him cereal four or five times a day, another lie. I am not saying that my son lied to the Dependency Investigator, the Dependency Investigator straight out lied about what my son had reported to her. I know this is a fact for several reasons, but the main one is directly from my son Manny. Upon his return home, I found it necessary to inquire about his care and wellbeing while out of the home. I asked him, "Were the foster parents nice to you, did anyone hurt you while you were there"? "No", he replied, "they were very nice to me, they really liked me". Then I asked him, "Were the social workers nice to you, did any of them threaten you in anyway"? He immediately replied "There is something wrong with them, they are so stupid they don't understand me and I had to keep telling them over and over, only with there hand". So now my son has been grilled, interrogated by the very people who are suppose to be protecting the children. What was the next step, water boarding? Now who do I report Ms. Maitland too for harassing my son?
On April 14th of 2009, we were all hyped up for our day in court, brought two witnesses, had Manny with us and we were anxiously awaiting or chance to testify and for the truth to finally be told. Again, Mr. Ben Curley had no interest in the truth being told, only concerned with a clean drug test. He had to call the labs to get them, as the Department of Children and Family Services were hiding them. We had been trying to get them ourselves as we knew we had to have two clean test by now and should have unmonitored visits. But our public defenders had to call to the labs to do what the social workers were supposed to have done. Not only that, but they were claiming that my wife had missed a drug test, but of course we had proof of all of the drug tests being attended, All of this was minor though, compared to the other proof that never got entered as evidence, the testimony that was kept out by the same kind of corruption that the good attorney Richard Fine was imprisoned for fighting. They kept offering us different deals with the prosecution; we kept refusing to deal with the prosecution and were waiting for our son to testify so that these lies were finally exposed. Ms. Maitland was noticeable nervous as were unwilling to deal, so they made a deal behind our backs. The only person to take the stand was me and the only thing I did there was enter three pictures of our apartment I had taken into evidence. So now that our right to due process was destroyed and we were in a trail not much different then the Jews found themselves in at the beginning of the holocaust, Ms. Maitland's bad fiction became a fact on the records.
On April 21st of 2009, we had another TDM, they could not push anything on us and they didn't. Ms. Maitland had to comment on how hard it was to get a deal for us so she could spare us from a trail.
Los Angeles County Department of Child and Family Services is committing federal offenses by;
Title 18, U.S.C., Section 241 - Conspiracy Against Rights
Title 18, U.S.C., Section 242 - Deprivation of Rights Under Color of Law
Title 18, U.S.C., Section 1001 - Fraud and False Statements
18 USC Sec. 1203TITLE 18 - CRIMES AND CRIMINAL PROCEDUREPART I - CRIMESCHAPTER 55 – KIDNAPPING
Title 42, U.S.C., Section 14141 - Pattern and Practice
My child had been wrongfully and unlawfully removed from my physical custody without Constitutional due process, or even the pretext of Reasonable Efforts having been offered as mandated by 42 U.S.C. § 671 (a) (15) and 672 (a) (15), which means that his removal meets the definition of KIDNAPPING according to 18 USC Sec. 1203. It was also obvious that the department was also acting in disregard to Amendment No.4909 of 42 U.S.C. § 671 (a) (the COATS (AND WYDEN) AMENDMENT) as the department also concocted stories to block the child from being placed with the maternal aunt. The Judge ordered that the allegations against the Aunt be investigated and if she was suitable to care for our son that he be placed there (Yaa, one small victory!)
On April 14th , Where was the justice????Mr. Curley spent the day coming out of the court room to offer me various deals from the prosecution and I kept telling him "no deals". He told me that my son said to the Dependency Worker that when he was really bad, we would beat him with a shoe or a belt and I told him that this was untrue. He said that the court was going to go on my son's testimony and I told him that this was good. We had our trail, but the only person to testify was me and all I did was enter three pictures into evidence. The Department of Children and Family claimed that Ms. Silva had missed a drug test, but she had the receipt for her attendance in her evidence book. . We also showed our defenders that we had evidence showing that we had a safety plan, that we had been calling the department and that they violated us intentionally, but they did not bring it up in court. They subpoenaed no evidence, no people, called no one to give testimony to their claims or anyone to challenge their claims although we did bring two witnesses to testify and our evidence book, none of it was used.
On June 8th of 2009, Ms. Silva received an email at 11:15pm asking if she would be available to work on a TV. She did not read it at the time it arrived as she had already retired for the evening.
On June 9th of 2009, Ms. Silva took her son to his physician Pejman Salimpour for an ear infection that had been causing him to miss school. She then went and filled the three prescriptions ordered by her sons physician. After that she returned home, cleaned and read her email. She was then visited by the Family Preservation worker named Suzi who helped her load her belongings in her sisters vehicle to go to the Van Nuys Flyaway.
On June 11th of 2009, Ms. Silva received a phone call shortly after arriving at LAX from Francisco Flores to inform her that she had a dirty test since she was a no show and that this would not look good to the judge. She was rather distraught by this statement and came home upset. I wrote Francisco Flores a letter and advised him on how to handle the situation professionally.
On June 12th Mr. Flores called Ms. Silva to advise her that she had to take her make-up test.
On June 25, 2009 Jonathan Cane called to advise Ms. Silva that he was to be her therapist and that he was calling to schedule an appointment. This is an attack on her 5th amendment rights.
On June 26th of 2009, I called Suzi Karapetyan's supervisor and advised her that thse actions were disrupting and detrimental to the functioning of the family unit and therefore was not incompliance with the wording of W.I.C. 300.0-304.7 as it clearly states that any services that the family is offered are to remain as unobtrusive to functioning of the family unit as possible. She was under the impression that the 'Family Preservation' services were court ordered so I faxed her a copy of the minute orders to show her otherwise. I also received a call from Mr. Nino of DCFS advising me that Fransico Flores was very busy and wanted to know if he could stop by this weekend to check on Manny. He is stopping by on Sunday at 10:30am which is very strange. That and the fact that he refused to email me concerning the issue, but I will be ready, video camera and Civil Rights Handbook in hand.
On June 27th of 2009, Mr. Nino refused to be video tapped while interviewing the minor child, so as I had an additional witness here, I did turn off the video camera. I have a bad feeling that I never should have done this, but now only time will tell. A lot of prayer is now needed.

Sunday, September 18, 2011

CSB Policies Questioned In Ohio

By Ed Runyan
runyan@vindy.com
WARREN
About 10 members of the public attended a Trumbull County Children Services Board meeting Tuesday to question the board about policies that protect the rights of the parents of children who come into the CSB system.
Harold L. Smith of Massillon said he became involved in the project after talking with Ulanda Waiters of Canton, who rents an apartment off of him, about her problems with the Children Services Board in Stark County.
Waiters has been in contact with people in Trumbull County, mostly on Facebook, and that has led her and Smith to see a pattern of problems that they believe exist at CSB agencies throughout the region, Waiters said.
First, they believe Trumbull CSB isn’t following one of the Ohio Rules of Juvenile Procedure when a child is removed from a home over allegations of abuse or neglect.
Smith said he believes the rules require a judge or magistrate to rule on whether there is probable cause for a child to be removed from a home, but no judge is involved in such cases in Trumbull County.

Click on the link for the rest of the story.
http://www.vindy.com/news/2011/aug/17/csb-policies-questioned/

Friday, August 26, 2011

CSB policies questioned

CSB policies questioned



Published: Wed, August 17, 2011 @ 12:01 a.m.
By Ed Runyan
runyan@vindy.com
WARREN
About 10 members of the public attended a Trumbull County Children Services Board meeting Tuesday to question the board about policies that protect the rights of the parents of children who come into the CSB system.
Harold L. Smith of Massillon said he became involved in the project after talking with Ulanda Waiters of Canton, who rents an apartment off of him, about her problems with the Children Services Board in Stark County.
Waiters has been in contact with people in Trumbull County, mostly on Facebook, and that has led her and Smith to see a pattern of problems that they believe exist at CSB agencies throughout the region, Waiters said.
First, they believe Trumbull CSB isn’t following one of the Ohio Rules of Juvenile Procedure when a child is removed from a home over allegations of abuse or neglect.
Smith said he believes the rules require a judge or magistrate to rule on whether there is probable cause for a child to be removed from a home, but no judge is involved in such cases in Trumbull County.
Nick Kerosky, executive director of the Trumbull CSB, said the judges in Trumbull County give law enforcement the responsibility for deciding whether a child should be removed in an emergency situation.
Within 24 hours, the agency files a request with Family Court for a magistrate to review the case and make a ruling on whether the removal was warranted, and the magistrate must rule within three days.
Smith said CSB serves as “prosecutor, judge and jury” when it becomes involved with a case, fails to notify parents of what is going on until after the child has been removed, and fails to notify parents of their legal rights.
Parents frequently are assigned a public defender, but he or she isn’t providing capable defense to the client, Smith said.
“If you drag the child out of the house, the parents are traumatized as much as the child, and they don’t even know why the child’s being dragged away,” said Dolores Wargo of Niles, parent of a 14-year-old son.
Kerosky said when the case is placed before the magistrate, an attorney is provided for the child and one is appointed for the parents.
Furthermore, a grievance process is in place, and it was updated within the last couple of months, plus there is an ombudsman, Bob McLean, who hears complaints raised by the parents, Kerosky said.
Atty. Dan Letson, a longtime member of the Children Services Board, said the attorneys with the Ohio Public Defender’s Office are “very competent lawyers.”

http://www.vindy.com/news/2011/aug/17/csb-policies-questioned/