Wednesday, October 5, 2011
UPDATE, OCTOBER 6: At the end of this post see why the organizers of today's webinar will NOT be answering the questions raised in this post
I read about a horror story last month.
It wasn’t one of those cases where a child died even though the case file had more “red flags” than a Soviet May Day parade. Nor was it one of those cases where a child was taken from parents who could have been mother- and father-of-the-year only to die in foster care.
Those horrors are the extremes and they are very rare.
What made this case so horrible is the fact that it’s so typical. It’s also the kind of case child protective services (CPS) agencies almost always hide behind confidentiality rules.
This one became public – minus identifying information and with all names changed – thanks to a webinar about ChildStat, the pride and joy of John Mattingly, former commissioner of New York City’s Administration for Children’s Services (ACS). At ChildStat meetings, ACS officials go over data from one region and pour over one case, chosen at random.
It’s the 12-page narrative of that one case that provides this rare x-ray of the soul of a CPS agency. They never got to it during the webinar, but they might during a follow-up webinar tomorrow. They asked for questions in advance. I've put mine at the end of this post.
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To really get the picture, the entire narrative needs to be read, because, in every sense of the term, the devil is in the details. I hope readers will take the time to go through it, and then compare this example of typical practice to an example of best practice from the latest newsletter of one of the smartest groups helping child welfare agencies improve, the Child Welfare Policy and Practice Group. Readers also might want to consider these questions:
●How would your own family rate under the kind of scrutiny the family in the New York City case was forced to endure?
●Can you imagine a government agency trying to micromanage a white, middle-class family the way ACS did in this case?
Meanwhile, I’ll try to summarize.
For starters, in half the states, this case never would have brought a CPS agency to the family’s door at all. The allegation was “educational neglect,” something discussed often on this Blog. According to a comprehensive study by the Vera Institute of Justice, a study commissioned by the New York State Office of Children and Family Services, half the states wisely leave such cases to the schools to sort out.
The allegation was that the older child, age 8, missed 25 days of school between September and early April, and was late 44 times. The parents had gotten lots of warnings and they allegedly were too lenient when the child said she was sick.
That’s it. No allegations of beating, torture, or starvation. Nothing about sexual abuse or parental drug abuse.
The parents are Hispanic, their income is about 140 percent of the national poverty line – and remember, this is New York City. They sleep on a queen size bed. (I have no idea why that is relevant to anything, but it’s included in the narrative.)
Clearly the family has plenty of reason for stress to begin with. Nevertheless, the picture that emerges, in spite of the narrative, is of parents who love their children, have been trying their best and are guilty of, at worst, human fallibility. They also had tried, without success, to get the school to help with the children’s problems – possibly engendering the hostility of the teacher who, by the mother’s account, treated her like dirt – and then reported her to ACS.
LIVES TURNED UPSIDE-DOWN
But this one allegation against this admirable family was enough to turn their lives upside down for at least a month (the case was still open when the narrative was written). There was one inspection visit after another. Over and over the children were questioned about the most intimate aspects of their lives. Had anyone touched them inappropriately? (No.) Did their parents ever hit them? (Yes, they got spankings.) Did the parents ever hit each other? (No.) Do they argue? (Yes – imagine that.) Because of the spankings the caseworker was ordered to be sure she “assessed the children for marks and bruises each time she visited.” I wonder what the children had to endure to meet that requirement?
But this one allegation against this admirable family was enough to turn their lives upside down for at least a month (the case was still open when the narrative was written). There was one inspection visit after another. Over and over the children were questioned about the most intimate aspects of their lives. Had anyone touched them inappropriately? (No.) Did their parents ever hit them? (Yes, they got spankings.) Did the parents ever hit each other? (No.) Do they argue? (Yes – imagine that.) Because of the spankings the caseworker was ordered to be sure she “assessed the children for marks and bruises each time she visited.” I wonder what the children had to endure to meet that requirement?
The parents underwent a similar grilling. When ACS wasn’t at the door at all hours, ACS was dragging them down to the borough office.
Though best practice in child welfare says you assess a family’s strengths as well as their weaknesses, from day one these parents were treated only as suspects. Every alleged failing was documented in the most minute detail, creating a 12-page litany of finger-wagging.
“The parents denied any domestic violence substance abuse or problems with physical and mental health,” the narrative says. Denied? They’d never been accused of anything like that in the first place. Yet throughout the narrative that word, - denied - is used over and over to describe the parents’ responses. The same information could have been conveyed to the ChildStat meeting by writing “the parents said they did not…”
And the denials were never enough. When asked, the younger child, age 6, says Dad sometimes drinks alcohol. So the caseworker is instructed to go back and grill the child about “what he drank and his behavior.” The children repeatedly say there’s no domestic violence. But a supervisor says “domestic violence assistance was also a possibility.” Another supervisor tells the worker to “inquire more about Joy’s [the older child’s] exposure to her parents’ arguments and how it might affect her.”
The Child Protective Manager (CPM), the highest-ranking official to look at the case,
noted that her concern was that Joy held herself responsible for getting her mother into trouble because she did not want to go to school. The CPM added that the mother should have provided Joy with more structure regarding her school attendance. … She added that [the mother] should take full responsibility for having not provided structure for her children.
The caseworker concluded that the parents did not “demonstrate developmentally appropriate expectations of all children” and did not “attend to the needs of all children and prioritizes [sic] the children’s needs above his/her own desires.” Apparently this was based on the fact that when the bus was late, they didn’t find another way to get the children to school.
It wasn’t just the parents put through the wringer. The amount of time put into the case by the caseworker boggles the mind. At one point, the caseworker came out of a meeting with her supervisor with “a list of at least 22 follow-ups … to complete” including “counseling the parents about inappropriate uses of corporal punishment” though there was no allegation or evidence that this was a problem. No wonder caseworkers are drowning in the demands placed upon them and may well miss a child in real danger, as is well documented in an excellent New York Magazine story. According to the Vera Institute study, fully 19 percent of the cases investigated by ACS are allegations of “educational neglect.”
It wasn’t just the parents put through the wringer. The amount of time put into the case by the caseworker boggles the mind. At one point, the caseworker came out of a meeting with her supervisor with “a list of at least 22 follow-ups … to complete” including “counseling the parents about inappropriate uses of corporal punishment” though there was no allegation or evidence that this was a problem. No wonder caseworkers are drowning in the demands placed upon them and may well miss a child in real danger, as is well documented in an excellent New York Magazine story. According to the Vera Institute study, fully 19 percent of the cases investigated by ACS are allegations of “educational neglect.”
THE PRICE OF “SUCCESS”
At no time were the children taken from the home. What happened to this family was probably the minimum amount of trauma a CPS investigation can inflict. In the end, the intervention by ACS may have improved the children’s attendance and prompted the school to get them some help the parents couldn’t get on their own.
At no time were the children taken from the home. What happened to this family was probably the minimum amount of trauma a CPS investigation can inflict. In the end, the intervention by ACS may have improved the children’s attendance and prompted the school to get them some help the parents couldn’t get on their own.
But the family paid way too high a price for this “success” - and it was entirely unnecessary.
In one of the seminal works of the 20th Century about child welfare, the late Joseph Goldstein, Anna Freud, and Albert J. Solnit write that:
Children react even to temporary infringement of parental autonomy with anxiety, diminishing trust, loosening of emotional ties, or an increasing tendency to be out of control. The younger the child, and the greater his own helplessness and dependence, the stronger is his need to experience his parents as his lawgivers, safe, reliable, all-powerful, and independent.
In this case mom is faulted for being too lenient, too willing to accept it when her daughter said she was too sick to go to school. But what happens now, when she tries to be more assertive, after ACS has spent a month badgering the family and undermining mom’s authority?
And then there’s the incident with the lamp.
Sometime after the investigation began, the older child explained that Danny, the six-year-old, “burned himself on a lamp when he attempted to fix a light bulb that blew out. She said that Danny’s teacher told him that he needed to help his mother more and so her brother wanted to fix the light bulb. Joy said that the lamp hit Danny in his face, but he did not cry. Joy denied that her parents have been arguing.”
Yes, Danny explained the incident the same way, a pediatrician confirmed that this was a credible explanation and, fortunately, the caseworker accepted it. But try to imagine the fear this family endured when it happened, knowing they were in the middle of a CPS investigation.
Yes, Danny explained the incident the same way, a pediatrician confirmed that this was a credible explanation and, fortunately, the caseworker accepted it. But try to imagine the fear this family endured when it happened, knowing they were in the middle of a CPS investigation.
The rationale for doing all this to a family, of course, boils down to “you never know.” Like the fanatical drug warriors who see marijuana as a “gateway drug” today’s “child savers” to use the term their 19th Century counterparts gave themselves, see educational neglect as a gateway allegation. The child missed school. So maybe mom’s a drunk and dad’s a pervert – you never know, right?
But there is no evidence that children suffer more abuse in the states that don’t require their CPS agencies to investigate “educational neglect.” And after doing a comprehensive reading of a random sample of cases, the Vera Institute researchers found that the notion that educational neglect is the "tip of the iceberg," is nonsense. The study found that generally, "educational neglect" is the tip of nothing except some kind of school problem, often one that is not the parent's fault. Sending a CPS worker to the door only makes the family defensive and makes it harder to solve whatever problem may be causing absenteeism.
As regular readers of this Blog know, the study authors recommended that if New York must keep investigating “educational neglect” it should be done through “differential response” in which either the CPS agency or a private contractor sends out a worker to offer a helping hand instead of a wagging finger. Had that been done here, the same potential positive results would have been achieved with no cross-examination of young children, no comprehensive visual inspections for bruises and no documentation in the case file of the size bed on which the parents sleep.
State after state has adopted this approach. Every study finds no compromise of child safety and some find that safety improves.
But for at least a decade, since before he ever got to ACS, John Mattingly has opposed differential response. Finally, late in 2009, he agreed to pilot it in some educational neglect cases. Several months later, and without announcing it publicly, he put the pilot on hold indefinitely, something uncovered by some enterprising journalism students.
http://www.nccprblog.org/2011/10/child-welfare-in-new-york-everyday.html
An abridged version of this post is available on the website of the trade journal Youth Today.
Oct of 2006 cps got involed in our lives n made my son move in with my mom cuz my 5 year old at the time told me that my 10 year touched her pee-pee
ReplyDeleteso i reached out for help for my kids witch i guess was a mistake as u will see later on they ended up useing it againce us June 12 2009 1:00 am cps
came to my house saying there was a report n demanding to see the kids i tryed to tell them they was sleeping seeing how they had school next day they
said let us in we wont wake them so not knowing my rights I letted them in what a big mistake that was . once
they got in my life was over they started taking pitchers n made a phone call n got our home condeamed then asked me if i had any place for the girls
to go witch i didn't so they woke them up n took them away all cuz a puppy wasn't fully potty trained an cuz there was some stuff that land lord had
to fix me n my lard lord got everything fixed n got the house uncondeamed in Oct of 2009 they gave us over nights then the weekend before holloween they
took my over nights away I asked y knowing I didn't do any thing wrong they said there is a invisagaion going on n don't worry once its over u can get
your over nights back another lie cuz i never got them back in fact i never got another alone time with them as u will see ( it was about A year later
when I started hearing reasons y they stoped my over nights 3 diffent reasons n 3 diffent lies ) 1. cuz I left the girls alone with my son witch I
didn't 2. cuz i let my son spend the night at my house well i had the girls over night witch i didn't 3. me n my girls spent the night at my moms
with my son being there witch we didn't even though it was never said that we couldn't I even told my lawyer that i have a witness that they r lieing
but my lawyer never did any thing about it Nov 4 2009 they removed my son from my mom saying that he is getting out of control n my mom can't handle
him any more from June 12 2009 to June 2010 I did everything I was told to do but they made my 13 year old move in with her dad way out to N.H witch
is a 15 hour drive from me that is it I even drived n they left my 10 year old baby girl n my son in foster care so i kept doing every thing i was told
to do then JAN of 2011 they started talking about retruning my son to me n told me i needed to come up with ways to keep my 10 year old safe from
my 15 year old so I came up with two page full of ways to keep her safe in Feb of 2011 they said my safely plans wont work they didn't even look at
them n they started talking to me about signing my rights away on my 10 year old i kept telling them i'm not signing my rights away i kept fighting
them about it n doing every thing they said to do every thing besept signing my rights away that was the one n only thing i kept refussing to do
till June 12 2011 when I went to court n told my lawyer I wanted a new lawyer I wanted A sec apenden before I sign any thing but in stade they
made me talk to my kids lawyer witch said I can get a new lawyer but they r going for word witch means i will lose the deal of being able to see
her 2 times a year then he asked me am i willing to not see my kid at all for rest of her life cuz if I give up my deal i be lucky if i ever see
her again cuz she more likely wont remember me an as any parent knows it hurts living with out r kids but it would kill us to never ever see our
kids again for rest of there lives so out of scaredness i signed my rights away even though i didn't want to so in Dec 2011 she will be adopted
by a lady thats already hit her 2 times that I know of :(( God I want my baby back PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZ :((
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They do this tricky stuff everyday bless you you are not alone. Hugs..
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